So today i was watching a show about a women who says she still hurts from what happend 7 years ago…So her husband cheated on her 7 years ago and till now she is still holding on to the pain…
Now i know that its not easy forgetting certain things,but you cant let them take control of you.Learn to forgive and let go.Letting go means when you remember it or when you tell a story about it its not gonna steal your joy..We keep grudges against people who dont even care about us anymore,you still hate that friend of yours for something he/she did in highschool or your ex that cheated on you even your parents for not loving…and all this things become a job cos you have to make sure that they know you still hurting but come on it happend years ago and people move on its life
Forgiving and forgetting 90% of the time is for yourself,when you forgive you dont do it to make someone else happy you do it to free yourself from the pain.
So just let go of all the things that caused you pain you cant let something that happend years ago still hurt you till now…you desrve some light in your life,just let it go and be happy
Stay strong loves
Sometimes it feels as if your life is falling apart,things are not going the way you planned,you keep loosing friends,partners ect.But maybe for once sit down and re-evaluate your life.Now that things are going the opposite direction how much has changed.since you lost that friend how much has changed.When you ended your relationship how happier are you.Sometimes you have this entire vision of your life planned out and when one part of it changes you freak and think My life is a mess.
I always tell myself God has given me a destiny and his plans for me are much greater than the ones i have for myself..So when things get this confusing and go sideways take a moment and pray…and leave it in Gods hands he knows what he has planned and all the mishaps will be sorted.
Have Faith Loves.
One thing I have learned from loving myself more is that its a factor in me gaining some confidence.
When you dont love yourself you always expect others to love you and when they don’t it ruins you.Once you learn to love yourself you won’t need others to validate the love you need and your happiness.loving yourself makes you more appreciative of your flaws and it also sets out your expectations in terms of how people should treat you.